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      Understanding the World Around Us

      Wes Dove by Wes Dove
      March 15, 2022
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      How we communicate and interact with the people around us – especially those we care about the most – has a significant impact on the quality of the relationships we have with each and every individual. Those relationships are often key to our overall happiness. With that in mind, I’ve focused the last few pieces in this column on a topic I had been hearing about for years but only recently started understanding just how simple it was to apply: emotional intelligence. Like so many other things in life, breaking emotional intelligence down into bite-size pieces not only made it easier for me to take action on, it made the results I saw from doing that improve substantially!

      I recently said something to Cindy about how we can sometimes work really hard to maintain even the most basic relationship with some of the folks around us but other times God can place some amazing people in our lives and we have great relationships from the start. In either case, the more we can learn to understand the people around us, the more effective (and healthy) those relationships can be! I shared this comment a few months back but I believe it’s worth include again now. In Emotional Intelligence 2.0, Travis Bradberry emphasized, “People who manage relationships well are able to see the benefit of connecting with many different people, even those they are not fond of. Solid relationships are something that should be sought and cherished.”

      Prior to this month’s column, we’ve looked at the first two components that make up this thing called emotional intelligence; self-awareness and self-management. Now’s let’s dig into the third component, which I believe serves as the starting point for building strong relationships: social awareness. Bradberry defines social awareness as our “ability to accurately pick up on emotions in other people and understand what is really going on with them.”

      Just to be clear, I was expecting to see some kind of reference to a crystal ball in the paragraph that followed that! After going through the rest of the chapter, I realized the crystal ball would have been much easier to find. But when I related the patterns William Marston outline in his work on The Model of Human Behavior could be used to “pick up on emotions in other people” rather than having to read their minds – especially since the only way we can really see emotions anyway is through outward behavior – the need for a crystal ball and magic wand was gone!

      Once we have a framework for picking up on emotions by recognizing and understanding the behaviors we’re seeing in each person we interact with, we’re ready to put it all together as we develop our skills in the fourth component of emotional intelligence: relationship management. And that’s exactly what we’ll look at next time!

      Wes Dove

      Wes Dove

      Prior to founding Dove Development & Consulting, Wes and Cindy Dove developed strong professional resumes while working in both large corporations and small, family-owned businesses. In addition to extensive work in behavior-based safety throughout North America, Wes held responsibility for safety compliance, human resources, and personnel development in multiple industries. He and his wife, Cindy, are Executive Directors with The John Maxwell Team and serve on that organization’s President’s Advisory Council. They’re Certified Human Behavior Consultants through Personality Insights, and contributing authors for the book Discover Your Team’s Potential – Proven Principles To Help Engage Your Team & Improve Performance, which made the Amazon Best Sellers List in all three categories its listed in just a few weeks ago.

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