Saturday, February 4, 2023
No Result
View All Result
SUBSCRIBE
The Chimney Rock Chronicle
26 °f
Broadway
40 ° Sun
45 ° Mon
44 ° Tue
54 ° Wed
58 ° Thu
  • Home
    • About Us
    • Pickup Locations
  • Columns
    • All
    • Book Notes
    • Eating Well in the Real World
    • Fishing with Mike
    • From the Potting Shed
    • Fulks Run Follies
    • Gobbler Sports
    • Handy with Randy
    • Headlines from Plains Museum
    • Hiking With Ray
    • Local Business
    • Local Legends
    • Musings from the Woodpile
    • Personal & Professional Development
    • Randy's Ramblings
    • Reflections from a Fuller Life
    • Sarah's Recipes
    • The Gospel Vault
    • The View From Here
    • The Wandering Wilkins
    • When This You See
    Photograph of Ronnie Fulk

    Fulks Run Follies

    Floating in pool

    The Wandering Wilkins

    Dog in woods

    Hiking with Ray

    Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

    Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

    Breakfast Pocket

    Sarah’s Recipes

    Bass Fishing with Mike – December 2021

    Bass Fishing With Mike

    Photograph of Wes Dove

    It’s Not You, It’s Me

    Gospel Vault

    Gospel Vault

    Fair and Tender Ladies book cover. By Lee Smith

    Book Notes – Classic Southern Novels

    From the Potting Shed – December 2021

    From the Potting Shed

    Randy image

    Randy’s Ramblings

    Handy With Randy

    Handy With Randy

    The Midnight Ride of Paul Reve …the Moose Hunter

    The Midnight Ride of Paul Reve …the Moose Hunter

    Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

    Continuity for Off Broadway Players

    Hiking with Ray

    Hiking with Ray

    Trending Tags

    • Entertainment
      • All
      • Festivals
      • Kids Activites
      • Music
      • Off Broadway Players
      • Sports
      • Upcoming Events
      Kansas

      Hunting for the Lesser Prairie Chicken in the Cimarron National Grassland

      Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

      Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

      Bass Fishing with Mike – December 2021

      Bass Fishing With Mike

      A Spinning Demonstration

      A Hidden Gem in Plain View

      Rounding the Bases

      Rounding the Bases

      Local Scouts Learn Flag Folding Procedures

      Local Scouts Learn Flag Folding Procedures

      The Midnight Ride of Paul Reve …the Moose Hunter

      The Midnight Ride of Paul Reve …the Moose Hunter

      Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

      Continuity for Off Broadway Players

      Rounding the Bases

      Rounding the Bases

      • Off Broadway Players
    • History
      • All
      • Bev's Historic Notes
      The Chimney Rock VFW Celebrates 75 Years of Service

      The Chimney Rock VFW Celebrates 75 Years of Service

      HEADLINES From Plains District Memorial Museum

      Highlights from the Plains District Memorial Museum

      Bad Roads

      Revolutionary War Service

      Mattress Shopping

      Retta’s Column

      HEADLINES From Plains District Memorial Museum

      Headlines from PLAINS DISTRICT MEMORIAL MUSEUM

      The Miller Family of the Genoa Area

      The Miller Family of the Genoa Area

      The Lantz Family

      The Lantz Family

      Timberville Historic Notes

      Timberville Historic Notes

      Evaline, Dorcas, and Mae

      Evaline, Dorcas, and Mae

    • Our Sponsors
      • Advertising
    • Home
      • About Us
      • Pickup Locations
    • Columns
      • All
      • Book Notes
      • Eating Well in the Real World
      • Fishing with Mike
      • From the Potting Shed
      • Fulks Run Follies
      • Gobbler Sports
      • Handy with Randy
      • Headlines from Plains Museum
      • Hiking With Ray
      • Local Business
      • Local Legends
      • Musings from the Woodpile
      • Personal & Professional Development
      • Randy's Ramblings
      • Reflections from a Fuller Life
      • Sarah's Recipes
      • The Gospel Vault
      • The View From Here
      • The Wandering Wilkins
      • When This You See
      Photograph of Ronnie Fulk

      Fulks Run Follies

      Floating in pool

      The Wandering Wilkins

      Dog in woods

      Hiking with Ray

      Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

      Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

      Breakfast Pocket

      Sarah’s Recipes

      Bass Fishing with Mike – December 2021

      Bass Fishing With Mike

      Photograph of Wes Dove

      It’s Not You, It’s Me

      Gospel Vault

      Gospel Vault

      Fair and Tender Ladies book cover. By Lee Smith

      Book Notes – Classic Southern Novels

      From the Potting Shed – December 2021

      From the Potting Shed

      Randy image

      Randy’s Ramblings

      Handy With Randy

      Handy With Randy

      The Midnight Ride of Paul Reve …the Moose Hunter

      The Midnight Ride of Paul Reve …the Moose Hunter

      Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

      Continuity for Off Broadway Players

      Hiking with Ray

      Hiking with Ray

      Trending Tags

      • Entertainment
        • All
        • Festivals
        • Kids Activites
        • Music
        • Off Broadway Players
        • Sports
        • Upcoming Events
        Kansas

        Hunting for the Lesser Prairie Chicken in the Cimarron National Grassland

        Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

        Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

        Bass Fishing with Mike – December 2021

        Bass Fishing With Mike

        A Spinning Demonstration

        A Hidden Gem in Plain View

        Rounding the Bases

        Rounding the Bases

        Local Scouts Learn Flag Folding Procedures

        Local Scouts Learn Flag Folding Procedures

        The Midnight Ride of Paul Reve …the Moose Hunter

        The Midnight Ride of Paul Reve …the Moose Hunter

        Spotlight on the Off Broadway Players

        Continuity for Off Broadway Players

        Rounding the Bases

        Rounding the Bases

        • Off Broadway Players
      • History
        • All
        • Bev's Historic Notes
        The Chimney Rock VFW Celebrates 75 Years of Service

        The Chimney Rock VFW Celebrates 75 Years of Service

        HEADLINES From Plains District Memorial Museum

        Highlights from the Plains District Memorial Museum

        Bad Roads

        Revolutionary War Service

        Mattress Shopping

        Retta’s Column

        HEADLINES From Plains District Memorial Museum

        Headlines from PLAINS DISTRICT MEMORIAL MUSEUM

        The Miller Family of the Genoa Area

        The Miller Family of the Genoa Area

        The Lantz Family

        The Lantz Family

        Timberville Historic Notes

        Timberville Historic Notes

        Evaline, Dorcas, and Mae

        Evaline, Dorcas, and Mae

      • Our Sponsors
        • Advertising
      No Result
      View All Result
      The Chimney Rock Chronicle
      Subscribe
      Thank you to our Sponsors! Thank you to our Sponsors! Thank you to our Sponsors!
      Home Columns

      The Right Tools for Better Relationships

      Wes Dove by Wes Dove
      April 6, 2022
      in Columnists, Lifestyle, Wes Dove
      Share on FacebookShare on Twitter

      Photograph of Wes DoveIn Emotional Intelligence 2.0, Travis Bradberry defines relationship management, the fourth component of emotional intelligence, as “your ability to use your awareness of your own emotions and those of others to manage interactions successfully.” If we were to jump right into attempting that without considering anything we’ve covered in this column over the last few months, I’m guessing most folks would be ready to throw in the towel; I sure would! But when we can build on what I’ve shared with you to this point on Self Awareness, Self-Management, and Social Awareness, this last piece isn’t nearly as overwhelming!

      When Cindy and I help organizations build more effective communication into their cultures, we almost always have everyone in the group complete a scientifically validated DISC assessment, so we have clear understanding of their communication style – their unique blend of the Driven, Inspiring, Supportive, and Cautious styles that William Marston outlined. Once we have their results, we create a team chart that shows everyone at a glance, and we teach them how to use an online tool to compare their own individual results with any other member of the group. Not only does that “Interaction Guide” tool provide some amazing insight for having more effective discussions in the workplace, but it’s also just as helpful if we use it in our personal lives!

      If you’ve read this column for a while, you’ve likely seen me reference The Platinum Rule. Where The Golden Rule suggests we “do unto others as we’d have them do unto us,” The Platinum Rule takes that a step farther by suggesting that we “communicate with others as they want us to communicate with them.” This plays a huge role in building better relationships – at work or at home!

      If I were to always communicate with Cindy based on The Golden Rule, sharing the big picture and glossing over the majority of the details that I don’t care all that much for, I’m pretty sure we wouldn’t be celebrating our 22nd anniversary soon! And if she followed that same approach when sharing anything with me, the caution and detail would be far more than I could take in… By understanding our unique communication style blends though, we had a framework to build on. And the “Interaction Guide” tool took that to a whole new level by providing us with Strengths, Struggles, and Strategies we each needed to be aware of when communicating with one another. That tool also gave us perspective on what the other is motivated by, needs from the conversation, wants from us in the process, and may find it difficult to do themselves. And since the tool is interactive, we can make adjustments based on our how our communication style blend changes when we’re under significant amounts of stress!

      Once we develop even a decent understanding of how to put tools like we’ve worked through here over the last few months into practice, we should be seeing the results right away. With better communication, especially communication geared at meeting the other person’s needs rather than just our own, we show them that we care about them, and our relationships grow stronger. As Travis Bradberry said, “people who manage relationships well are able to see the benefit of connecting with many different people… Solid relationships are something that should be sought and cherished.”

      Wes Dove

      Wes Dove

      Prior to founding Dove Development & Consulting, Wes and Cindy Dove developed strong professional resumes while working in both large corporations and small, family-owned businesses. In addition to extensive work in behavior-based safety throughout North America, Wes held responsibility for safety compliance, human resources, and personnel development in multiple industries. He and his wife, Cindy, are Executive Directors with The John Maxwell Team and serve on that organization’s President’s Advisory Council. They’re Certified Human Behavior Consultants through Personality Insights, and contributing authors for the book Discover Your Team’s Potential – Proven Principles To Help Engage Your Team & Improve Performance, which made the Amazon Best Sellers List in all three categories its listed in just a few weeks ago.

      Next Post
      Gospel Vault

      Gospel Vault

      Popular Articles

      • Rounding the Bases

        Rounding the Bases

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • Gone, But Not Forgotten

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • The Old Inn At Mauzy

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • Handy With Randy

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • Continuity for Off Broadway Players

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • The Blessing of the Pure in Heart

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • Fulks Run Follies

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • Eldon Layman: Retired Educator and Book Creator

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • Unique Retreat on the Creek

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • Highlights of The Plains District Memorial Museum

        0 shares
        Share 0 Tweet 0
      • About Us
      • Advertising
      • Contact
      • Pick Up Locations

      © 2021 The Chimney Rock Chronicle - Website & E-Commerce by Bare Web Design, Broadway Va.

      No Result
      View All Result
      • Home
      • Columns
      • Entertainment
        • Festivals
        • Kids Activites
        • Music
      • History
      • Sports
        • Thank you to our Sponsors!
        • Advertising

      © 2021 The Chimney Rock Chronicle - Website & E-Commerce by Bare Web Design, Broadway Va.